between

[ bih-tween ]
/ bɪˈtwin /

preposition

noun

Usually betweens. a short needle with a rounded eye and a sharp point, used for fine hand stitchery in heavy fabric.

adverb

in the intervening space or time; in an intermediate position or relation: two windows with a door between; visits that were far between.

Idioms for between

    between ourselves, confidentially; in trust. Also between you and me, between you, me, and the post/lamppost/gatepost/etc.
    in between,
    1. situated in an intermediary area or on a line or imaginary line connecting two points, things, etc.
    2. in the way: I reached for the ball, but the dog got in between.

Origin of between

before 900; Middle English betwene, Old English betwēonan, betwēonum, equivalent to be- be- + twēon- (cognate with Gothic tweihn(ai) two each) + -um dative plural ending

usage note for between

Among expresses a relationship when more than two persons or things are involved: Distrust spread among even his strongest supporters. Between is used when only two persons or things are involved: between you and me; to decide between tea and coffee. Between also continues to be used, as it has been throughout its entire history, to express a relationship of persons or things considered individually, no matter how many: Tossing up coins between three people always takes a little working out. Between holding public office, teaching, and writing, she has little free time.
Although not generally accepted as good usage, between you and I is heard occasionally in the speech of educated persons. By the traditional rules of grammar, when a pronoun is the object of a preposition, that pronoun should be in the objective case: between you and me; between her and them. The use of the nominative form ( I, he, she, they, etc.) arises partly as overcorrection, the reasoning being that if it is correct at the end of a sentence like It is I, it must also be correct at the end of the phrase between you and …. The choice of pronoun also owes something to the tendency for the final pronoun in a compound object to be in the nominative case after a verb: It was kind of you to invite my wife and I. This too is not generally regarded as good usage.
The construction between each (or every ) is sometimes objected to on the grounds that between calls for a plural or compound object. However, the construction is old and fully standard when the sense indicates that more than one thing is meant: Spread softened butter between each layer of pastry. There were marigolds peeking between every row of vegetables. The construction betweento is a blend of betweenand ( between 15 and 25 miles ) and fromto ( from 15 to 25 miles ). It occurs occasionally in informal speech but not in formal speech or writing.

OTHER WORDS FROM between

be·tween·ness, noun

WORDS THAT MAY BE CONFUSED WITH between

among between (see usage note at the current entry)

British Dictionary definitions for between you and me

between
/ (bɪˈtwiːn) /

preposition

at a point or in a region intermediate to two other points in space, times, degrees, etc
in combination; together between them, they saved enough money to buy a car
confined or restricted to between you and me
indicating a reciprocal relation or comparison an argument between a man and his wife
indicating two or more alternatives a choice between going now and staying all night

adverb Also: in between

between one specified thing and another two houses with a garage between

Word Origin for between

Old English betwēonum; related to Gothic tweihnai two together; see two, twain

usage for between

After distribute and words with a similar meaning, among should be used rather than between : this enterprise issued shares which were distributed among its workers

Idioms and Phrases with between you and me (1 of 2)

between you and me

Also, between ourselves; just between you and me and the bedpost or four walls or gatepost or lamppost. In strict confidence. For example, Just between you and me, it was Janet who proposed to Bill rather than vice versa. This phrase, dating from about 1300, is generally followed by some informative statement that the listener is being asked to keep secret. The variant with bedpost, also shortened to post, dates from the early 1800s; four walls, also shortened to the wall, dates from the early 1900s, as does the gatepost.

Idioms and Phrases with between you and me (2 of 2)

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