untogether

[ uhn-too-geth-er ]
/ ˌʌn tʊˈgɛð ər /

adjective Slang.

disorganized; confused; chaotic: Right after the divorce was a very untogether time for me.

Origin of untogether

First recorded in 1965–70; un-1 + together

British Dictionary definitions for untogether

untogether
/ (ˌʌntəˈɡɛðə) /

adjective

slang incompetent or badly organized; mentally or emotionally unstable