know where one stands

1

Be aware of one's position relative to others, or how one is regarded by others, as in I'd love to know where I stand with the new board.

2

Be aware of one's own opinion or feelings about something, as in He knows where he stands on the issue of public housing.

Words nearby know where one stands

know one's stuff, know one's way around, know only too well, know the ropes, know the score, know where one stands, know which side of one's bread is buttered, know-all, know-how, know-it-all, know-nothing