cuckoldry

Cuckold is an insulting term for a husband whose spouse has had a sexual affair. Cuckoldry can mean one of two things: the act of making man a cuckold (by having an affair with his spouse), or the state of being a cuckold.

Cuckold and cuckoldry are applied only to men. Both terms are intended to be insulting and shameful to the man they are applied to. Cuckoldry is sometimes also used to describe behaviors of animals—which is perhaps the only way it or cuckold can be used that’s not offensive.

Cuckold is a very old word—there are records of its use from the 1200s. It is derived from the Middle English cukeweld and the Anglo-French cucuald, which are based on names of the cuckoo bird. Cuckold originally meant “an adulterer,” a reference to the the cuckoo’s practice of laying its eggs in other birds’ nests. Cuckoldry was first recorded in the English language in the 1500s. It is formed with the suffix -ry, indicating a condition.

By definition, cuckoldry always involves adultery (unfaithfulness in marriage), as opposed to cheating or infidelity outside of marriage. And the state of cuckoldry is only applied to men. Cuckoldry implies that the husband was unable to satisfy his spouse (traditionally, his wife). For much of its history, the word was associated with sha

Cuckold is an insulting term for a husband whose spouse has had a sexual affair. Cuckoldry can mean one of two things: the act of making man a cuckold (by having an affair with his spouse), or the state of being a cuckold.

Cuckold and cuckoldry are applied only to men. Both terms are intended to be insulting and shameful to the man they are applied to. Cuckoldry is sometimes also used to describe behaviors of animals—which is perhaps the only way it or cuckold can be used that’s not offensive. me, with a cuckold being treated as the subject of contempt or ridicule. This theme found its way into literature: cuckoldry was a topic in some of Shakespeare’s plays. (Shakespeare used the word cuckold multiple times, perhaps most notably in Othello, whose title character worries that his wife will make him a cuckold.)

The offensive slang term cuck that emerged in the 2010s is a shortening of cuckold but carries an additional racist subtext.

What are some other forms of cuckoldry?

• cuckold

What are some words that share a root or word element with cuckoldry? 

 

• cuckoo

 

What are some words that often get used in discussing cuckoldry?

• adultery
• infidelity
• wife
• husband
• spouse
• shame
• insult

Cuckoldry is always used negatively, especially in a way that’s intended to indicate that such a situation is shameful. It is also used in a scientific context relating to certain animal behaviors.

Imagine the complete psychological cuckoldry you have to be in to post a tweet mocking you so brutally and still seek validation from someone who thinks you're a sinner because you're gay

— findom earle (@coherentstates) September 13, 2019

The most interesting lesson from the cuckoo bird story is not the “cuckoldry” part but that the host bird cannot easily evolve a robust defense.

— A. S. (@LoCtrl) December 10, 2019