brusquerie

This most mistaken opinion gives an indelicacy, a 'brusquerie', and a roughness to the manners.

The gentle refinement of their manners and speech was in such pleasing contrast to the brusquerie of the bulk of his associates.

But Eugene seemed merely quizzical, as if not taking this brusquerie to himself.

I think the fatigue he sometimes experiences after phenomenafatigue often out of all proportion with themis due to his brusquerie.